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solitaire engagement ring with a square cut diamond and a thick band with no diamond

The Emergence of Unisex Engagement Rings

Alicia Briggs | January 24, 2024

The world of fine jewelry is witnessing a notable rise in unisex engagement rings. Today, a growing number of couples seek rings that transcend traditional gendered designs. Couples are looking for something that resonates with all partners to embrace inclusivity and personal expression.

Let’s explore the emerging world of unisex engagement rings, from popular design elements, symbolism, and tips for choosing the right one. For further inspiration, explore VRAI’s distinct assortment of unisex engagement rings featuring VRAI created diamonds.

How Have Engagement Rings Changed Over Time?

Engagement rings have long stood as a symbol of commitment, but the way they look and how they’re worn has changed with time. Traditionally, engagement rings have served as delicate, beautiful symbols of love and status, typically reserved for women.

Engagement rings initially started as a simple band, but by the late 1940s, diamonds became the ultimate symbol for engagement rings. While diamond engagement rings remain the most popular option today, the tradition of only women wearing diamond rings is evolving.

The emergence of unisex engagement rings marks a significant shift in how we view these tokens of marriage. Unisex rings offer designs that don't conform to traditional gender norms. They're about mutual appreciation and a shared symbol of love. Engagement rings today represent a wide range of styles to suit all.

The Rise of Unisex Engagement Rings

The rise of unisex engagement rings is a trend that reflects a broader societal shift towards inclusivity. Unisex rings are more than just a fashion statement, they are resonating with modern couples and their values. So what's fueling this trend? It's a mix of changing societal norms and a growing desire for personal expression. Couples today are looking for ways to celebrate their union together that feel true to their unique relationship.

Are Unisex Engagement Rings a Recent Trend?

Unisex engagement rings have significantly risen in popularity recently, but unisex fine jewelry and engagement rings aren't a new trend. Jewelers have long been offering a variety of ring styles that aren’t overtly gendered. What's changed recently is the growing acceptance and desire for rings that transcend traditional norms in all relationships. Both partners are increasingly eager to honor their engagement and love.

Industry Insights on Trends in Unisex Engagement Ring Designs

“I have been so excited to watch as male engagement rings and mutual proposals have caught on. I think this is really evidence that the way people are considering partnerships and shopping for engagement rings is shifting,” says diamond industry expert and VRAI Sr. Director of Sales & CX, Grace Taylor.

“For many years now, it has been more popular for couples to shop together rather than having the proposer shop solo and the proposee be completely surprised. Not only are partners shopping together, but they’re also changing the surprise and joy of a proposal, or new piece of jewelry, so that everyone gets to play both roles,” Taylor continues. “Engagement rings are no longer a way for ‘a man to stake his claim on a woman,’ but for those in a partnership to show their mutual commitment and intention to get married. That is incredible. Plus, everyone deserves special jewelry.”

Design Elements of Unisex Engagement Rings

Any engagement ring can technically be a unisex engagement ring, but there are several design elements prominently featured in unisex rings.

Popular Materials and Styles for Unisex Engagement Ring

Unisex engagement rings often strike a balance between boldness and subtlety. You’ll commonly find designs with sleek lines, minimalistic settings, and distinct details, as covered below.

  • Non-traditional Settings: “Unisex rings tend to trend away from the traditional engagement ring solitaire styles and delve more into wider bands, lower profiles, and more diamonds than just one big center stone,” explains Taylor.
  • Gold or Platinum Bands: Yellow gold, white gold, rose gold, or platinum are all popular choices. “While people sometimes want to get funky with the metal, we advise sticking with the classics like solid gold or platinum. These are the kinds of pieces you want to be able to wear daily for a long time. Alternative metals often need more attention or care,” recommends Taylor.
  • Minimalism: Unisex rings often lean towards a more minimalist design, opting for clean lines and a focus on the quality of materials and craftsmanship.
  • Distinct Diamond Placement: Instead of the traditional large center diamond, you’ll often find smaller, more understated stones that add character without dominating the design.

Some popular unisex engagement rings include The Hover, The Signature East-West, or The Bezel.

Symbolism in Unisex Rings: What Unisex Rings Represent

Unisex engagement rings symbolize equality and partnership. They often represent a modern approach to love and commitment, unbound by traditional stereotypes or gender roles.

Unisex rings can also be a reflection of personal style and shared values. They appeal to people who seek to express and honor both their devotion and their individuality.

In this way, unisex rings aren't just a trend; they're a powerful expression of contemporary relationships, honoring the beauty of diversity and the depth of connection.

How to Choose the Right Unisex Engagement Ring

Choosing an engagement ring, unisex or otherwise, is about finding a piece that resonates with your shared values, aesthetics, and dreams. Utilize the tips below to select your perfect ring.

  • Prioritize Lifestyle and Comfort

Look for a design that suits your daily activities. Comfortably fitting bands and durable materials are ideal for active lifestyles, for example. The design you choose should marry style with practicality.

  • Mirror Personal Style

Classic band, vintage style, or a more avant-garde design, it should feel like anYour ring should resonate with your personal fashion sense. Whether it's a cl extension of your personality and wardrobe.

  • Consider Custom Details

Engravings, unique stone settings, or custom designs are all personal options to consider when choosing your ring.

  • Consider Ring Size

Ensure proper sizing for comfort and security. Ensure that the jeweler you’re choosing offers a wide range of sizes to suit your needs.

Don’t be afraid to take your time and explore all your options before committing to your ring. Jewelers offer a wide range of styles, price points, and quality materials to suit any budget or preference. When you find the one that feels just right, you'll know it's meant to be.

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Explore VRAI Unisex Engagement Rings

All VRAI engagement rings are unisex designs. What sets our collection of elegant, inclusive designs apart is our unmatched lab-grown diamonds and craftsmanship.

VRAI created diamonds are grown in the world’s first zero-emission foundry, powered by 100% renewable energy. From the very first atom, we can trace the origin and quality of every VRAI created diamond.

Cut and polished to the highest industry standards by our expert craftspeople, every one of our scintillating diamonds tells a unique story, just like you. Let VRAI’s engagement rings with Carbon-Neutral Certified diamonds reflect your love, individuality, and values.

Unisex Engagement Rings FAQ

Read on for answers to frequently asked questions about unisex engagement rings.

What Makes a Ring Unisex?

Any engagement ring can be unisex. No designated style or rule makes a ring unisex.

Do Male Engagement Rings Exist?

Yes, male engagement rings exist. They are commonly found at most jewelers, and often interchangeable with unisex engagement rings.

What Differentiates a Unisex Engagement Ring From Traditional Designs?

There isn’t necessarily a specific design or element that differentiates unisex engagement rings from traditional designs. Many traditional designs are unisex, as any engagement ring can be unisex.

Can Unisex Engagement Rings Be Customized?

Yes, unisex engagement rings can be customized. Couples can customize their unisex engagement ring by personalizing specific details, choosing a unique diamond shape, adding an engraving, or creating a completely new custom design with the help of a diamond expert.

How Do We Choose a Unisex Ring That Suits Both Our Styles?

If you’re choosing a unisex ring to suit both your styles, start by discussing your individual preferences and see where they overlap. Consider the elements that you both love, like metal types, stone choices, or design styles. It’s about merging your shared tastes to create something that resonates with both of you.

What Metals Are Commonly Used in Unisex Engagement Rings?

A variety of metals are used in unisex rings, but platinum and gold are the most common choices.

How Do I Choose the Right Size for a Unisex Engagement Ring?

The best way to choose the right size for a unisex engagement ring is to measure your ring size before buying. Consider visiting the jeweler or ordering a ring sizer for an accurate measurement. You can also measure your ring size at home with a string and ruler.

Once you know your ring size, you can compare the measurement with the jeweler's online ring sizing guide.

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