Engagement Ring Finger FAQ

Below you’ll find answers to common questions about how to wear engagement rings.

What Are the Rules for Wearing Engagement Rings and Wedding Rings Together?

Traditionally, most people wear the wedding ring first and then the engagement ring. But there are no set rules on how to wear your rings. If you’re stacking your rings, ensure that each ring pairs flush to prevent damage or chipping. Many shoppers choose to purchase a [wedding ring set](/journal/post/wedding-ring-sets) or [bridal set](/journal/post/bridal-ring-sets-how-to-find-the-best-set) when [buying an engagement ring](/how-to-buy-an-engagement-ring) to ensure that both rings can be worn together.

Can You Wear Your Engagement Ring After You Get Married?

Yes, you can wear your engagement ring after getting married. Most people choose to wear their wedding ring and engagement ring together. Some people choose to just wear their engagement ring - it’s up to you!

Do You Have to Wear Your Wedding Ring and Engagement Ring on the Same Finger?

Traditionally, people wear their wedding ring and engagement ring on the same finger, but some people choose to wear each ring separately. You can wear your rings however you’d like.

Should You Sleep With Your Engagement Ring On?

We recommend removing your engagement ring before sleeping. This will protect your ring from potential scratches or chipping.

Do You Wear Your Engagement Ring Every Day?

Many people choose to wear their engagement ring daily, but it’s up to you. We do recommend removing your engagement ring if you’re planning to go swimming, work out, or if you work with your hands.

Can You Wear a Ring on Your Left Finger If You’re Not Married or Engaged?

You can wear rings on your left ring finger, even if you’re not engaged or married. However, if you do choose to wear a ring on your left ring finger, people may assume that you’re engaged.

Which Finger Is for a Promise Ring vs an Engagement Ring?

A promise ring is commonly worn on the left ring finger. Promise rings are given as a “pre-engagement” ring. They represent a couple’s intention to get married when they’re ready or old enough. However, you can wear a promise ring on any finger if you’d like.